Jackie was seen working overtime and a half to ensure that her mother (who had cancer) was able to witness her 50/11th marriage to her husband, Doug. Sadly, Jackie’s mother passed away this week and while I most certainly DO send my condolences, I have to say that I spent an ample amount of time side eyeing her quick tears on the show.
Allow me to explain. Although there is no way that you can dictate someone’s emotions or how they’ll deal with death should they be forced to do so, it was justsomething about her tears/crying scenes that seemed forced to me…like it wasn’t coming from a genuine place. While watching the show with folks on Twitter, I almostsaid something about it but figured I wouldn’t be disrespectful to her, especially as she’s dealing with a situation such as losing a loved one.
Which brings me to the tea….
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
L.I.E. "SINGLE" OFFICIAL MUSIC VIDEO
L.I.E "Lost In Eternity" a new hit single out called "Single" which just dropped,also check out there video called "i bet" . I been on to this group since 2009 and every time i see the trio there always doing Big things . I love these guys .
You can download their latest mixtape "A Long Way Home" from www.datpiff.com orhttp://www.thevampent.com/
MUSIC VIDEO: BEI MAEJOR – “TROUBLE (FT. J. COLE)”
Producer Bei Maejor debuted the music video for his J. Cole single, “Trouble”.
Tuesday, September 20, 2011
LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS PRESENTS: NOT THEIR FAULT BY KISS CHANEL
My dad was an alcoholic, that’s why I drink so much.” “I was abused as a child so beating my kids is the only thing I know.” “Everyone at work did it. Why can’t I?” Spare me. Stop blaming everyone else for your current condition & take full responsibility for yourself. People choose to be who they are. All of these poor excuses/justifications you’re making for your wrong doings is only making you appear more weak minded. You don’t choose your family because you’re born into them, however, you make the decisions in who you friends are because that’s the privilege we have. Correct? So why can’t you apply those same decision making aspects into the way you lead your life? Just because you were exposed to alcohol usage, that doesn’t mean it’s okay for you to become an alcoholic. Just because your father physically abused your mother, doesn’t mean you should ever fall prey to hit a woman. I don’t care what you’ve been through. We have been going through life long enough to learn not to make excuses for our faulty ways. How do you expect to grow if we’re unable to learn from our past? From what we’ve been exposed to? If I continue to blame everyone for where I’ve been, isn’t is just as fair for me to blame myself for where I go? We have a reason to be vulnerable or even angry about our history, but there’s no reason for us to remain where we are. There’s no reason to aimlessly try to follow the footsteps of someone else erroneous behavior.
You’re the only person responsible for your happiness. One of our main goals in life is to not be dependent on someone else. To take strides within our own paths in a route that we’ve created, on our own, as the years have gone by. Why let someone else conditions place a restriction in your path or on who you are? Yes I understand we’re influenced by at least one person in our lives, but that doesn’t mean it’s okay to clone their behavior & follow in their negative footsteps. If my mother’s greatest attribute is always giving a helping hand, yet, her least appealing attribute is her addiction to drugs, which one you think is best to pick up? With that being said, spare me the drama and the tear sheds of whoever, whenever, why ever such & such made you act the way you do. All that tells me is that you’re more weak minded than I thought. Mature people with strong minds gives no excuses for their actions. They embrace their shortcomings and if it affects others, they will try their best to fix it. Stop giving the word “influence” so much power. According to dictionary.com, influence means “To affect the nature, development, or condition of.” Interesting. Looks to me, it can work both ways. Positive & negative. Yet, you chose the negative (otherwise known as the meek) route. I really don’t care what you’ve been through to be honest. Granted, scars don’t heal but they are not meant to be the blue print of the rest of your experiences in life. I was raised on getting beatings (or the more politically correct term, spanking) however, the way I raise my daughter is the total opposite of that. Not once have I ever used a belt on her or threatened her physically. And guess what? Her mannerism is outstanding.
Too many people have allowed themselves to remain in situations that are unproductive. All of this blame we place on everyone else for the things we’re unable to do for ourselves are becoming a bit tedious. If you ask me I think it’s all a crock of shit. All this blame being placed on other people is just holding your own life back. While you’re sitting there feeling sorry for yourself because of what someone else did or did not do. Own up to your shit and flip it to something positive. I know for a fact that you know at least one person who was raised a certain way and exposed to certain things and have become the total opposite of what’s been instilled in their mind. Aren’t you one of those people?
As long as you find someone else to blame for anything you are doing, you cannot be held accountable or responsible for your growth or the lack of it.
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HEY FASHION ADDICTS CHECK OUT "Miu Miu Suede & Glitter Peep Toe Ankle Boot
The shoes are available at NET-A-PORTER.com and Saks.com, in sizes other than 36
NEW MUSIC: J. COLE – “NOBODY’S PERFECT (FT. MISSY ELLIOTT)”
Roc Nation signee and North Carolina/ NYC'S QUEENS native J. Cole is gearing up to release his highly anticipated debut album, Cole World: The Sideline Story.
Check out the latest track to surface, the Missy Elliott-assisted “Nobody’s Perfect.” The record was produced by J. Cole himself, while the album still features productions from Brian Kidd, and No I.D. Cole World: The Sideline Story is slated to hit stores next week, September 27th.
MUSIC VIDEO: TYRESE – “STAY” (CAMEO BY: TARAJI P. HENSON)
The complete video is finally here! Check out the video for Tyrese‘s newest single,“Stay” off of his upcoming album Open Invitation, which hits stores November 1, 2011
Sunday, September 18, 2011
NEW MUSIC : KMajor featuring Lil Chuckee - Put It On Me
Kanecc
Bluprint ATL / P.T.E. / SODMG / 3MG / Universal
MARRIED TO THE MOB FALL 2011 COLLECTION
just released their FALL 2011 line of fresh new tee’s and re-released classics,
ARE YOU FEELING IT! " CASSIE'S NEW LOOK ON 106!
MEDIA ALERT: Ciara, Serena, LaLa, Trina & More At Kim K.'s Wedding
next month's 2 part "wedding special", pics have leaked out from the ceremony of Kim Kardashian and KrisHumphries. We've got a few of the pics featuring her "besties" Ciara, Lala, Trina, and Serena, inside...
For the black and white themed wedding, all the ladies threw on their black and white best for the occassion. Serena looked hot in a white cocktail dress with black piping. Lala rocked a black strapless cocktail dress with a ruffled waist. Ciara did a long slinky black number with a gold strap. And Trina rocked a long white number with a high slit and black lace trim.
FASHION: BEHIND THE SCENES OF 2011 ROCAWEAR LADIES FALL LOOKBOOK
CONCRETELOOP TEAMED with ROCAWEAR to style direct their 2011 Ladies Fall Look Book.
FOR MORE CHECK OUT THE LOOKBOOK PHOTOS.
FOR MORE CHECK OUT THE LOOKBOOK PHOTOS.
NEW VIDEO: FRANK OCEAN "SWIM GOOD"
frank ocean [swim good] from christopher francis ocean on Vimeo.
After releasing his music video for his demo track, “Thinking About You”. The singer/songwriter is hitting us with yet another video, only this time it’s for his nostalgia, ULTRA single, “Swim Good”. The video was directed by Nabil.
Saturday, August 13, 2011
NEW MUSIC : SABI - WILD HEART
Warner Brother Records singer/rapper made her first appearance to the music scene not too long ago when she was one-half of the L.A duo The Bangz. Now after being featured on Britney Spears’ “(Drop Dead) Beautiful” and opening for her, Sabi is stepping out on her own with "WILD HEART" Produced by the Dream Machine & Written by Ester Dean.
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